That Time I had Coffee with a Former Inmate

That Time I had Coffee with a Former Inmate

I sat down at the empty table at the same time that the owner of the curious belongings wouldreturn to his table. He was in his mid 20s and scruffy. Scruffy, not in an intentional way. He appeared to be clean shaven, and put together, even what some may call attractive. Still he seemed scruffy to me, in a way that only life could give. Maybe it was the premature lines on his face or a certain chip on his shoulder, but it seemed whatever life he had been living,  he had been living it hard.ver life he had been living,  he had been living it hard.

He made brief eye contact with me as he sat down and began telling me a story about his day. He spoke as if we were old friends, as if he had already introduced himself and knew that I would be interested in the story he came in with. He was not flirty nor suggestive, just matter of fact-ly and sincere.

That Time I Paid it Forward

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Today I am grateful for an old man in polka dot swim trunks with an extra $20.

After driving an hour by myself I realized that I forgot my purse and even worse, had an empty gas tank. I decided to go to the beach to problem solve...as all life's problems can be solved at the beach.

At the same moment an old man with memorable shorts sat by me and began to chat. He talked about life for a quite a while...what he loved, what he didn't love and how he ended up on that beach, sitting next to me. He then began to ask questions, which is when I told him of my predicament. To which, he handed me $20 and asked me to #payitforward. I put the crisp 20 dollar bill in my tank and was able to make it back to my purse. Thank you kind sir.

Update: I was standing in line at the grocery store when the women in front of me forgot her wallet. I pulled out a $20 and helped her along her way.

Three Ladies. One Campfire. My own version of "Burning Man"

Three Ladies. One Campfire. My own version of "Burning Man"

Somewhere high in the Rocky Mountains lies traces of a roaring campfire with remnants of an ex-boyfriend’s shirt and memories of an epic girl party.

The moon was satisfied and full on a summer night when two girlfriends and I ventured into the woods to embrace good times and let go of other times. It was a night that was spirited with wine and jubilant energy under the glow of a heart-stirring Colorado sea of stars.

‘Twas a night of redemption and lady-power, a declaration of new beginnings and freedom from past mistakes. If you are suddenly picturing three jaded man-haters spinning yarn as they stroke many a pet cat, know this wasn’t the situation. For this night wasn’t about ex-boyfriends—or men at all for that matter.